Week 286: Marriages and Chronic Pain
Please join us this week in praying for marriages that must deal with chronic pain. Couples in these marriages can struggle sometimes because of an identification problem: they identify the suffering spouse as the problem instead the suffering spouse’s pain . This misidentification can lead to false blame: the healthy spouse can blame the suffering spouse for their problems, but maybe more often the suffering spouse can blame himself or herself. In either case, this false blame can be destructive to the intimate marriage relationship the spouses should enjoy. Financial pressures can often assail these marriages as couples seek any and all possible solutions to the debilitating situation. It is not unusual for treatment programs or medications to work for a time but need adjustment as time passes. These adjustments cost money. It is also not unusual for couples dealing with chronic pain to be lured into expensive treatments that promise relief but f...